Q. I want to try symphony concerts, but they are like work! Why can’t it adapt to people like me?


Q. I’ve heard parts of symphony music on radio, TV and movies and it often made me curious. Even though it takes a while to build, I like the series of waves. What I have a problem with is when the music builds to such an intense climax, and I get so excited I actually feel like bursting out singing or even laughing!
But I don’t want to get shushed or judged for being excited. Don’t they want us to get excited? Can’t I just stand in the back? I hear better on my feet anyway.

And wearing TAILS is suspect, alright? It’s a little depressing. Add to that some of the players look so unhappy or tired. I get that they’re focusing, but I need to see that they’re excited to play in an orchestra. Why won’t they show it?

I only prefer new/old music. But people applaud even for the music I thought was pointless. And with titles like Symphony No. 4 in Bb-major I have no clue what this music might suggest. I know it’s complicated, but can’t a musician just talk to us like real people– like family and friends? Unlock this for me a little.

None of my friends EVER go to symphony concerts and I love hanging out with my friends. We’re not gonna read program notes or listen to a professor give a history lesson.
We want to meet the players of the orchestra. What do THEY like about the next piece?  I like suggestions.

If I’m going out after the concert to meet my friends down the street. I bought a full-priced ticket, why can’t I come dressed down in jeans and T-shirt without feeling JUDGED by ushers and audience?  I just don’t care enough about the symphony to risk feeling judged. Call me selfish but REALLY, who needs that? Why should I come to concerts if you won’t serve me as I am?

A. Classical music is really a trip! It’s a magic carpet ride on psychedelic instrumental colors. Much of it is abstract, without any lyrics or much context, so that we can explore our own capacity to imagine. There’s no need to ready a judgement. We just need to enjoy internally the fascinating parade of animated musical characters. The more profound classical works lend us a sense of purpose, helping us imagine ourselves past the pressing issues of the day. How would you like a new song for overcoming? Where do you start? Try Brahms, 1st Symphony, finale, 2 minutes in.